Being visible in the gay community to me means showing up regardless of where one falls on the spectrum. I will go to any event, show, parade, demonstration, and friend’s side to be physically visible and emotionally visible and ready to support. I haven’t always been good at it, but I strive everyday to be better. Better at supporting the community to be unapologetically themselves by being a truer version of myself, and better at loving each other despite our differences. We’re all in this together and this is a community in which we all have a place.